Put Yourself In Charge With Feng Shui’s Command Position

Did you know that Feng Shui is concerned with the idea of your safety and security as much as it is with anything else?

Before you can concentrate on things like relaxing with your family or making a living, you want to know that you and your loved ones feel as safe as possible.

Feng Shui uses a concept called the “Command Position” to make sure you feel secure in your space.

The Command Position emerges from our instinctive need to have visible control over our environments: we’re most comfortable when no one can sneak up and surprise us.

Here’s what it looks like in a bedroom:

The Command Position in the bedroom, with a great view of the door.

The Command Position in the bedroom, with a great view of the door.

When you’re in the Command Position you can easily see the entry to your space, putting you in the best position to deal with whatever might be coming through the door.

To set it up in your home or office, place an important piece of furniture – your couch, your bed, your desk — so it faces the doorway but isn’t in a direct line with it, giving yourself the widest possible view of the room.

Here’s a room with both the chair and the couch set up in the Command Position:

The Command Position in the living room.

The Command Position in the living room.

You know you’re in this “power spot” when you feel most comfortably in charge of the room.

Consider the seat you’re most likely to choose in a restaurant: across the room from the entry, with your back to a wall and at a slight angle, giving you a comfortable view of people coming in as well as your fellow diners.

The Command Position is one of the simplest, most powerful tools you can use in your space. It provides an important metaphor for being in control of your world.

Arranging furniture this way is so instinctually comfortable, you’ll feel the difference immediately. Take a look around, try out in your space, and leave a comment about your experience!

  • Emily

    Okay I get it. I’m terribly amused, in a dark humor sort of way. The “Command Position” is perfect for someone with an anxiety disorder. I rarely leave the house, but occasionally, I do go out to eat with my family. If I cannot find the “command position” in the restaurant or it’s too crowded for me to feel in control, we have to leave. Maybe I should dig a little more into Feng Shui. :)

    • http://openspacesfengshui.com Ann

      Emily, I think this is actually a HUGE part of what Feng Shui is all about — helping you to feel safe & secure at all times. Yes, by all means please “dig in” to Feng Shui, and let me know if and how I can help you along the way. I’m so glad you left this comment ;) , thank you!

  • Dorothy

    I’m so glad I saw your post on the command position before the interior walls in my in the bedroom of my new house were constructed. At first I thought I couldn’t do it, but after sleeping on it, I’ve realized I can change the closet configuration enough to have the bed face the door. I knew something about it didn’t feel right, but now it really falls into place. Thanks for a great tip–I’ll thank you for it every time I walk into my new bedroom!

    • http://openspacesfengshui.com Ann

      Dorothy, I am thrilled that you were able to catch the construction in time to change the layout of your bedroom! You’ll sleep better every night, guaranteed. So glad I could help!

  • http://www.fulfilledliving.com Lisa Hartnett

    Hi Ann,

    What do I do to remedy the fact that I have a wooden Tatami Mat bed frame that has a line down the middle? As well that my head board is not attached since it did not come with the bed. I attach it with rope.

    • http://openspacesfengshui.com Ann

      Lisa, I’d suggest placing a red sheet over your bed frame to bring the two sides of the bed together with powerful Yang energy. Then cover the red sheet with your regular bedding so it doesn’t show. If the rope that attaches the headboard is very secure and isn’t visible when the bed is made up, it shouldn’t be a problem. Thanks for writing!